I've been having phonesex for years, and it's different with every person, just like it would be in real life. And it's somewhat strange to me that I can be so very different with each of these men. Sex formed with words can be very powerful, seeing as your largest sex organ is your brain, and each one stimulates me in a different way. Some of them are romantic and gentle and slow, with words that caress me and make me feel like a treasure... And some men pound into me with what they say, biting, scratching and fucking themselves into my brain. This has given me tremendous insight into what turns me on, without having to live with a bruise I didn't like but got in the course of exploration, or having to have too many awkward moments.
You'd think after doing it for so many years that I'd have gotten past the awkward shy side of myself that has a hard time talking about sex, or any embarrassment over the fact that I'm about to masturbate over the phone with someone, or the feeling that what I'm doing isn't right somehow... I get over it, and generally have a great time, but you'd think I'd have stopped struggling with it by now.
Posted by Annora at October 15, 2004 04:13 PM